Friday, November 8, 2019

Motivational Icon Napoleon Hill: Success in Motivation for Others

Controversy Needn't Negate Positivity


The internet being what it is for quotes, most of us today are familiar with extrinsic motivator Napoleon Hill. Born October, 1883, Hill became a leading giver of sage advice over a long career as a writer and speaker.

Hill's enduring, perhaps most ironic quotable message was that "fervid" expectations are essential to improving one's experience; a message to be found referenced in several publications not penned by Hill—an idea based in impressions derived from Hill's written works. 

Despite being a controversial figure with personal failings, Hill nevertheless followed in the footsteps of his most admired motivational figures and painstakingly created success for himself (as well as any conflicts in his wake).

Through his own life experience, Hill realized that people need external motivation at certain times in their lives. Thus, he offered it. Best known for the personal development work entitled Think and Grow Rich (1937), Napoleon Hill is usually well regarded for his writing and inspirational lifestyle, and responsible for many of the multitude of motivational quotes that grace the streams of social media.

Napoleon Hill Quotes


Motivational quotations taken from the Hill library include such sage points as:
  •  Neglecting to broaden their view has kept some people doing one
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    thing all their lives.
  • When your desires are strong enough, you will appear to possess superhuman powers to achieve. 
  • If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self. 
  • The starting point of all achievement is desire. Weak desire brings weak results.
  • Where thought prevails power may be found!

These relatively few samples are a good indication of the type of instigating content motivation-seekers desire, in order to enrich themselves.

No doubt, much of Hill's subject matter is invaluable to those who seek or stumble upon it, and many consider themselves to have benefitted from it in some way.

Extrinsic Motivational Prompts Can't Replace Our Actions


While some are luckier in life, others don't have quantifiable positive external motivators in their lives. They may rely on outside sources of positivity to generate the force within themselves.

Sure, everyday facts of life can be motivating or offer positive as well as negative experiences, but such inevitable events aren't necessarily motivating in that positively targeted way that instills the excitement of cheering directly for our benefit! Rather, such motivation is available primarily in the service product of motivational speaking.

Plus, with motivational speaking comes the studied, often experienced, tips for success. It's not just about the cheer-leadership, but about gaining insights gathered along the road to proven success.

In the end, however, we must realize—about ourselves—that the power to succeed is within each and every one of us, and sometimes only needs to be encouraged, or revived. This is what makes such positive external motivators as Hill worthy resources in our work on ourselves. 

Whether we are more or less intrinsically motivated to positive or negative actions is largely based in our environmental experiences. While circumstance may stall or upend us, we make our own base decisions. We pick up our own books, choose our best-anticipated Ted Talks, and we choose what our free time (time not spent earning a living) will look like. 
Ultimately, we must pick our own most-effective leadership.


REFERENCES

The Edge Bulgaria: Open Innovation for Tomorrow – Bridging the Gap Between Research and Business Development, theedge.solutions/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/Think-and-Grow-Rich-by-Napoleon-Hill.pdf.

Goodreads, www.goodreads.com/.

"Napoleon Hill." Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia, Wikimedia Foundation, Inc, 17 Feb. 2004, en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Napoleon_Hill. Accessed 23 Aug. 2019.

Novak, Matt. "The Untold Story of Napoleon Hill, the Greatest Self-Help Scammer of All Time." Paleofuture, 6 Dec. 2016, paleofuture.gizmodo.com/the-untold-story-of-napoleon-hill-the-greatest-self-he-1789385645.

"Wisdom for the Soul." Google Books, books.google.com/books?id=-T3QhPjIxhIC&printsec=frontcover&dq=isbn:9780977339105&hl=en#v=onepage&q&f=false.

Friday, November 1, 2019

Mark it on Your Calendar: "Plan Your Epitaph Day"

November 1 marks the day that some of us will sit down to write our own epitaph. Whether near the end of life or not, some comfort may be taken in the power of the written word as one drafts these final words in brief summation of their existence.

Some may sense a macabre element inherent in such an occasion as November's Plan Your Epitaph Day, and there may be. However, it may be more a matter of convenience and surety.

Our epitaph is kind of like our 30-second elevator speech, only more personalized and usually shorter—thus deeper (emotionally); and, with much less predictability regarding the circumstances and delivery of the communication.

What is an epitaph?


An epitaph is essentially a story by which an event, person or time may be remembered. Take, for example, the image of the Haymarket Riot Memorial:

Image of epitaph on Haymarket Riot memorial
Image via Wikipedia Commons Author


The Gravesite Epitaph


The best examples of an epitaph like that which we're considering herein are found on individual gravestones and crypt plates. These epitaphs, or ultra-short stories, comprise a message about the deceased person to which they refer. An epitaph may be as simple and fundamental as

In memory of . . .

Alternatively, or in addition, an epitaph may be a more elaborate statement:

With Love, Throughout Eternity . . .

Yet more detailed epitaphs can be found, such as:

GOOD FREND FOR JESVS SAKE FORBEARE,
TO DIGG THE DVST ENCLOASED HERE.
BLESE BE Ye MAN Yt SPARES THES STONES,
AND CVRST BE HE Yt MOVES MY BONES.
—classical literary work, as appears on the tomb of William Shakespeare

There are epitaphs you wouldn't want, like that of a maid of Queen Elizabeth:

Here lies, the Lord have mercy upon her,
One of her Majesty's maids of honour:
She was both young, slender, and pretty,
She died a maid, the more the pity.

Why Draft Our Own Epitaph


See, when you think about it, a special day set aside to draft our own epitaph makes perfect sense. We could leave it to chance, and most probably do. But, all things considered, summation of our life experience may be best left to us.

Of course, there is little guarantee of our wishes being met before our death—and much less after; but, we do know that desire and clarity are important factors in our best, results-oriented, goal setting.

Being that the date of the occasion is November 1 each year, there are several other reasons for the inspired event.

  1. Being the day immediately following Halloween, our minds are ceremonially prepared for the macabre side of life. 
  2. Being the fall season—aka the cooldown that signals the end (or hibernation) of many things, such as green leaves and growing food
  3. Being the day also known as All Saints Day, November 1 is already a celebration of sorts. (In some traditions, food gifts are commonplace.) Why not make it a little about ourselves as we strive to follow in the footsteps of our most hallowed. 
  4. Being All Saints Day, one of the traditions of the day is to actually visit cemeteries. Many do visit deceased loved ones on this marked day. Notably, in the Americas at least, florists are likely to see a spike in patrons at this time due to the tradition of bringing flowers to graves on November 1.
  5. Self-help strategy: Minding one's own potential epitaph on an occasional basis is a way of gaining introspective insight into their persona, or how they relate to the world outside their personal sphere. What do you think about yourself, and what would/should others be saying about you after you pass on from this world? Do these perceptions match up?
So, we can see that writing one's own epitaph is not all as macabre as one might initially think. Still, it doesn't hurt to be in such a frame of mind. The post-Halloween autumn season of falling leaves and temperatures certainly lends to an ambience conducive to the task.

Can you think of any other inspirations to draft your own epitaph?


REFERENCES:

Famous Literary Epitaphs. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://web.cn.edu/kwheeler/epitaphs.html

November 2019 Official, Fun, Crazy and Bizarre Holidays. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.brownielocks.com/NOVEMBER2019.html

Plan Your Epitaph Day, November 2 or April 6 at Holiday Insights. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.holidayinsights.com/moreholidays/April/planyourepitaphday.htm

Shakespeare's funerary monument. (2006, April 4). Retrieved from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shakespeare's_funerary_monument